“Tracy! What is wrong with you? Are you sick?” These are
words I have heard a number of times over the last few months, as female
friends here in Ghana have noticed I have lost a bit of weight. Now, I haven’t lost crazy amounts of weight,
and I am by no means thin by UK standards (my dress size is still in double
figures!), but in Ghana weight loss is approached quite negatively.
You see, having a healthy weight or even being “fat” (let’s
approach this with the same attitude as most Ghanaians I have met and not mince
our words!) is considered a sign of wealth, a sign that you have plenty to eat.
A curvy ‘structure’ is desired by most women I have spoken to, and appreciated
by many men. It is remarkably refreshing
to see women embrace a larger body type and not be obsessed with conforming to
a Hollywood/celebrity body shape.
Sorry Renee, but being a bag of bones won't cut it in Ghana....I don't think this is such a good look either. Go and eat a burger! |
In the UK, I feel like it is well documented and debated
about the ideal body type imposed on girls and women by the media and fashion
world, with campaigns such as the Dove Real Beauty campaign trying to change
perceptions that thin is beautiful and we must all have a size 6 body to be
beautiful and sexy. It is a wonderful lesson in body confidence then, to walk
down Sandema high street and see women enjoy their curves, and walk around in
well-fitting clothing which display who they are quite naturally. A few weeks ago, on a visit to the Bolgatanga
team, we went to a local night club, Soul Train, where we saw Ghanaian girls
showing us how to dance and laughing at us because we didn’t have enough meat
on certain parts of our bodies to dance well.
For me, I was overwhelmed with how body confident they were,
particularly as I am often quite self-conscious dancing and wearing revealing
clothing in nightclubs back home – it was quite the attitude adjustment!
What do you think? Is she trying to hide behind the tree, or is she enjoying her lunch without a concern for the effect on her hips? |
In my opinion, this acceptance of the human form and an
appreciation of a “healthy” weight translates to a positive attitude towards
other issues, such as breast feeding. It
is not unusual to be on a tro-tro, or even sat in a restaurant or Church and casually
glance to the left to see a woman breastfeeding quite openly and with no
embarrassment or need to be discrete; it is viewed as a natural and necessary
process. Tolu, one of Team Tamale’s
first volunteers, wrote an excellent blog on her reaction to breastfeeding in Ghana, which I urge you to read, and means I won’t dwell on the topic any further, but will use it as an example of how a different approach to the human body has further implications than what clothes look good.
Aside from the professional work experience I am gaining by
being here and working in Ghana, the cultural experience is affecting me in
many positive ways too. Don’t get me
wrong, I cannot deny my pleasure at losing a bit of weight (it certainly saves
on the Slimming World membership fees!), but I think, more importantly, I will
be leaving Ghana not only with a streamlined body, but will have streamlined
any negative and anxious thoughts about my appearance and my size.
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